Published September 1, 2026

My Agent Keeps Asking Me to Lower My Price. Are They Just Trying to Give My House Away?

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Written by Zach Castillo

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Why Your Agent Keeps Asking You to Lower Your Price (And Why That's Not Them Giving Up On You)

If your home is currently for sale in San Antonio, there's a good chance you've had this conversation with your real estate agent:

"I think we need to lower the price."

And your immediate reaction might be:

Again?

Why?

I'm not giving my house away.

I get it.

Especially if you remember what your neighbor sold for a few years ago. Or you watched home values skyrocket during 2021 and 2022 and assumed your home would keep appreciating from there.

But something has fundamentally changed in the San Antonio real estate market. And sellers need to understand what's actually happening before they can trust the recommendation their agent is making.

San Antonio Is a Buyer's Market

This isn't just something real estate agents are saying.

San Antonio has become one of the strongest buyer's markets in Texas. There are significantly more homes available today than buyers need, which means buyers have something they haven't had in years:

Choices.

A lot of them.

Think about what the market looked like in 2021. A buyer might have found three homes that fit their criteria. Today? They might have 20.

That completely changes buyer behavior. And it changes how sellers have to compete.

But Zach, Aren't Buyers Still Looking?

Yes. This is the interesting part.

Buyer activity hasn't disappeared. In the data we're tracking, showings are actually up approximately 4% year to date.

Mortgage rates aren't dramatically different either. The average 30 year mortgage rate at the end of August 2026 was around 6.66%. One year earlier it was approximately 6.56%.

So buyers haven't suddenly stopped looking because rates exploded. They're looking. They're touring. They're searching Zillow, Realtor.com, Homes.com and, because we're obviously biased, HBRealEstate.com.

They're just being much more selective about what they buy.

That distinction matters.

So Why Isn't Anyone Buying MY House?

Here is where the market gets uncomfortable.

We're selling roughly the same number of homes as we were last year. Sales are up modestly. But inventory has grown faster than sales.

For example, if sales increase roughly 2% while inventory increases around 7%, that leaves approximately 5% more homes competing for buyers without a corresponding increase in buyers purchasing them.

Those homes have to go somewhere. They sit. They reduce their price. They offer incentives. Or eventually, they come off the market.

That's the battle happening right now.

There isn't necessarily something wrong with your house. Your house is simply competing against more alternatives.

The 2021 and 2022 Problem

This might be the hardest part of today's market for sellers to accept.

A significant number of homeowners bought or refinanced with a mental anchor set at the peak housing market of 2021 and 2022. Home prices had exploded. Interest rates were historically low. Homes received multiple offers. Sellers controlled almost everything.

It created an expectation that values would keep moving upward from those numbers.

They didn't.

In many parts of San Antonio, values have been flat or have pulled back from their peak.

That doesn't mean San Antonio real estate is broken.

It means we're going through a correction.

Markets don't move in straight lines forever. And unfortunately, what you paid for your house doesn't determine what a buyer will pay for it today.

The market does.

So What Can a Seller Actually Do?

You really have four major levers.

1. Improve the Property

You can invest more money into making the home more appealing. Paint. Flooring. Landscaping. Fixtures. Repairs. Staging. Maybe even larger renovations.

Those improvements can absolutely help. But there's an obvious downside: they cost money. And there's no guarantee you'll get every dollar back when the home sells.

2. Offer Buyer Concessions

You can offer closing cost assistance, rate buy downs or other incentives.

These can be powerful tools. But there's one problem. The buyer has to want to see your house first.

A $10,000 concession isn't particularly useful if the buyer never clicks on your listing because another house looks better at the same price. And experienced buyers and agents already know concessions can be negotiated. Concessions can help convert interest into an offer. They don't always create the interest in the first place.

3. Wait

You can decide not to sell.

Sometimes that's actually the right answer. If you don't need to move and selling at today's market value doesn't accomplish your goals, keeping the property may make more sense.

But if you do need to sell, waiting while competing inventory keeps stacking up isn't really a pricing strategy. It's a gamble that the market will eventually agree with your number.

4. Lower the Price

And here we arrive at the conversation nobody wants to have. The one your agent keeps bringing up.

Price.

If the home is professionally photographed. If it's marketed everywhere buyers are looking. If your agent is following up. If you're getting online exposure. If the property is easy to show. If the home presents well. And buyers still consistently choose other properties.

The market is telling us something. The price and the perceived value aren't aligned.

An Exercise I Want Every Seller to Do

Forget that you own your house for five minutes. Pretend you're a buyer.

Pull out your phone. Search Zillow. Search Realtor.com. Search Homes.com. Or search HBRealEstate.com.

Put in the price range your home is currently listed in. Then draw approximately a one mile radius around your property.

Now look at your competition. Not the homes that sold six months ago. The homes buyers can purchase today.

Ask yourself:

How many houses are available? How updated are they? How do their kitchens compare to mine? How do their yards compare? Which one has better photographs? Which one needs less work? Which one has a pool? Which one has a better lot? Which one is priced lower?

And then ask yourself the most important question:

If these weren't my memories, my improvements and my house, which one would I buy?

That exercise can be incredibly eye opening. Because buyers don't care what your neighbor sold for in 2022. They care about the choices sitting on their phone today.

Price Doesn't Mean Giving Your House Away

There's an important distinction here.

Your agent shouldn't simply tell you, "Lower the price." They should be able to explain why.

Show you the competition. Show you the showing activity. Show you buyer feedback. Show you online traffic. Show you recent sales. Show you pending properties. Show you what buyers are actually choosing.

Pricing should be a strategy, not a guess.

But once you've looked at all of that data, there comes a point where we have to acknowledge what the market is telling us. Because ultimately, a home's market value isn't determined by what the seller wants. It isn't determined by what Zillow says. And frankly, it isn't determined by what your real estate agent thinks either.

It's determined by what a qualified buyer is willing to pay compared with every other option available to them.

And Here Is My Challenge to Sellers

If your agent is doing their job. If they're marketing the property aggressively. If they're communicating. If they're showing you the data. If they're studying your competition. And they keep recommending a price adjustment.

Listen to the recommendation.

You don't automatically have to agree with them. Challenge them. Ask for the data. Make them explain their reasoning. That's what a good advisor should be able to do.

But if the evidence supports what they're telling you and you still refuse to consider their recommendation, I'd ask you one uncomfortable question:

Why did you hire them in the first place?

You hired a real estate professional because they spend every day studying a market you might participate in a handful of times during your lifetime. Their responsibility isn't to tell you what you want to hear. Their responsibility is to tell you what you need to know to make the best decision possible.

And right now, the San Antonio market is sending sellers a pretty clear message:

Buyers are out there. They're looking. They're buying.

They're just choosing the homes where the condition, presentation, location and price make the most sense.

Your job isn't to give your house away.

Your job is to make sure your house becomes the one they choose.


Ready for a straightforward conversation about where your home actually stands?

Your Homebase Team helps San Antonio and Texas Hill Country families make confident real estate decisions through honest guidance, proven strategy, and an exceptional experience. If you want to see the real data behind your pricing, not a guess, reach out and let's talk it through.

There's no place like your Homebase.

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Zach Castillo

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